Your assistant should hold what you have been holding. That was the promise of the first AI-Powered Back Office cohort, and by the fourth week a small group of real estate agents had one doing exactly that.
Every Monday in October, Sol Nieves and I met with a small group of agents for a 90-minute live build on Google Meet. Each agent built her own back office assistant, one layer a week. Nobody watched a demo and went home to figure it out. They built it in the room, with us, in their own businesses.
By week four, they had built a morning brief designed to arrive on its own, a Drive their assistant can search, and an inbox list that shows who is actually waiting on them.
Here is what they built, what changed, and where to start if you missed it.
Where They Started
The room was mixed, and that was the point. A few agents arrived already using an assistant every day. Others said early on that they felt overwhelmed or behind. Some ran a CRM. Some had no CRM at all. Every assistant was built in Claude.
Some came in with systems already in place. Some didn't have order at all, and that's where we started with them. An agent without a CRM used a simple Google Sheet instead, and her assistant read that just as well. Sol checked the pace during every build, the chat filled with "ready" and "done," and anyone who fell behind got caught up between sessions. Halfway through, we simplified each week's build so it walks an agent through setup step by step, and nobody gets stuck on manual edits.
This was never about who closed the most deals. It was about who actually ran the system each week.
Order first. Then leverage. The assistant can only carry what has a place to live.
Week 1: It Remembers
The big idea: your assistant holds what you have been holding in your head.
I set up the project live: the assistant's instructions and a simple memory document it reads every time, so it starts each day knowing her business. Then every agent did the same. They named their assistants, wrote the instructions, and added their first daily commands, starting with "Run my morning briefing."
By the check-in, some agents had already put their assistants to work for briefs and reminders. One assistant caught overlapping bookings on an agent's calendar. Another caught schedule changes that never got updated.
Week 2: It Finds
The big idea: one filing system your assistant can search.
With one prompt, Sol built a numbered Drive system her assistant can search, from start to archive. The agents built the same structure, updated their memory files so their assistants knew where everything lives, and set up a pipeline their assistants could read.
One agent fed in a client file, and her assistant started tracking its deadlines. Another assistant built client folders and flagged the documents nobody had filed yet.
Week 3: It Answers
The big idea: your assistant finds who is actually waiting on you and drafts the reply in your voice. It never sends. You do. Everything stays in your own Google account, and nothing moves without your yes.
Sol showed how her inbox sorts itself, how her assistant finds the emails still waiting on her, and how it learns to write like her from what she has already sent. The agents built their inbox lists, their voice profiles so drafts sound like them, and their inbox rules for what to sort and flag.
One sweep looked through more than a thousand unread threads and found the handful of real people actually waiting for an answer. One assistant noticed conflicts in its own rules and fixed them once its agent said yes.
Week 4: It Acts
The big idea: your assistant moves from knowing to doing.
Agents connected their assistants to their CRM, turned the commands they use every day into saved routines they can run with one line, and designed a morning brief that arrives on its own. Two agents connected their CRMs live. One assistant wrote seven daily routines. One agent styled her brief with her own colors and a daily scripture.
The week after the cohort ended, that agent's morning brief started landing in her inbox by itself. Five of her seven daily commands were ready to run every day. The other two each needed one small fix.
What the Agents Said
In the first week, as their assistants started working:
"It's catching my overlapping or overbooking."
"It's catching things that may have shifted that weren't updated."
And before the first session even began, one agent wrote:
"You and Sol have put something really valuable and timely together."
"I've heard of other people talking about owning your own data and having your own AI vault/brain, but I trust it coming from you."
By the end, one agent told me it felt like magic, and another told us it has been extremely helpful. Others said their assistant turned the day's loose ends into a checklist, or that the file organization and morning briefs gave them more room to run their business.
It isn't magic. It feels like magic because the assistant is actually carrying some of the work now.
How Sol Uses Hers
Meet Aura, the one assistant Sol runs her business and life from. Every morning, Aura pulls her Trello, Lofty, calendar, and email into one daily brief with her deal updates, today’s mortgage rates, and her past client call list. It sorts her inbox, drafts replies in her voice, keeps a running log of every deadline and promise, creates her assistant’s tasks in Trello, and even catches every email from her son’s teacher so nothing at school gets missed. She starts and ends each day on one dashboard instead of carrying it all in her head. Nothing goes out until she says so.
Missed It? Here Is Your Next Door.
If your business feels heavy because you do it all yourself, start where these agents started: building it live.
Sol's Virtual Back Office Workshop is Monday, December 14, at 12 PM CT (1 PM ET), live and virtual. It's $67, and it's one session to see what a back office assistant can carry for you before you decide whether to build one.
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